10 XXX Secrets Cougars Love in Bed

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Cougar XXX is not just for porn anymore. With Snapchat milfs, bumble, tinder, and match.com every young man can meet a cougar XXX his life.

It’s every guy’s fantasy to be king of the bedroom. We don’t grow up secretly reading Playboy magazine and watching porn for nothing. It’s the one thing all guys want to be great at.

With practice and these cougar XXX secrets, you’ll get a little closer to being that real life pornstar your cougar craves.

It’s Your Time

Knowing who you are in the relationship and in the bedroom is the key to getting her the first time and every time after that. If you’re the one in control, you have to know it and be it. Otherwise, she might just find someone else that is what she needs.

There’s nothing wrong with letting her take control every once in a while. She’s older than you, so she’ll want to show you few things she’s learned too. What she’s really into is your youth. She wants to feel 20 again. She wants her heart pumping and sweat dripping.

First things first, be aggressive once you get things are rolling in the bedroom. The first thing that comes to mind, do it, and don’t hesitate. If you’re fumbling around trying to figure out which position to try next, she’ll lose interest and it will be difficult to get it back.

Keep Your Mouth Shut and Be Present

You better not be thinking about work or your kids when it’s ‘business time.’ Nothing turns a woman off like whining about what your boss did today. If you want to get laid, leave that stuff at work and focus on your beautiful woman. Her sexy shape, her smell, and all the things you’d love to do to her.

Also when you’re in bed, shut your mouth.

This is serious. There is nothing more powerful than the words you say in bed. They have the power to instantly change her mood.

Choose them wisely.

Release Her Dark Side

By learning to tap into her dark side you awaken what you’ve always been seeking: A woman totally comfortable with her body and sexually charged. She will challenge you to be the man you’ve always wanted to be.

Be careful though, this side of a cougar can break a man that isn’t sure of himself. The darker and more aggressive she becomes the more you both can enjoy the full benefits of sex.

This dark side is why so many young men are attracted to older women. They want to be with someone that knows herself and is comfortable being aggressive in bed. It’s not unheard of with younger women, but it’s less likely to find a young woman fully joyed by sex.

Cougars XXX – The Element of Surprise

Routines are the enemy of good sex with a cougar XXX. She may be older and thinks she’s seen it all, but after you’ve finished this article you’ll have something new. She wants to see what you’ve got up your sleeve before she goes into your pants.

The surprise is crucial in all stages of a relationship. You have to show her you’re not a coward. The best way is to take her somewhere she’s never been.

Do you really think ball games, sports bars, movies, and dinners are going to turn her on anymore? You can do better than that. Take her on an adventure. Give her something to tell her friends.

Foreplay Is a Must

Don’t just go for the home run every time. Women want an experience more than anything. If you’re too quick to get to the point, then you’ll make it boring. One great way to mix it up is to change your foreplay routine. Doing it on Wednesday’s because her kids are at soccer practice is a great way to get kicked out of her pants.

Seek to surprise her with a sexy lunch rendezvous or random ‘sick’ days. These kinds of acts will mean the world to her because to her it’s the little things that really matter. Big presents are cool too, but it’s the flowers on a Tuesday night that will get her in the mood.

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A Real Man Knows What She Likes In Bed

Listening to her is the advice that trumps every cheesy line and cougar XXX secret there is to bed a cougar. Make it your prerogative to understand your cougar. Anticipation is the key to knowing how to flip her switches and positions. What does she like? Does she like it rough most of the time? Does she want to talk afterward? How much does she want to control the situation? These are all things you need to know.

It’s good to give her what she wants most of the time when it comes to sex if she’s craving something. It doesn’t mean that you’re not in control. It actually means you’re more in control because you can choose how and when to give her what she wants.

Watch for Signals

93% of all communication is nonverbal, and during sex it’s down to 1%. However, with a cougar you can add a few percentage points, because they will tell you when you’re doing good and vice versa.

Having sex with a cougar is the easiest way to get good at sex, because she won’t be shy to communicate what she wants. She does this because she knows what she wants, unlike many younger women. Watching your woman’s hot body and sexy facial expressions is not just fun it’s necessary to give it to her properly.

It’s hard to understand what all the sounds and movements she makes really mean sometimes. This is why you have to really pay attention when you make it with a cougar. If you do, you’ll learn way more than normal.

Cougar XXX Toys

Toys aren’t always cool, but when they are it makes things so much sexier. If going into sex stores isn’t your thing, you can buy handcuffs and costumes online or try toys like ice or blindfolds. Your creativity will keep her guessing and that’s what she wants.

Look for Exotic Places

Don’t get the wrong idea here. You really have to know your cougar well to get away with this. Not all women like getting naked in public places.  However, a change of venue is a fantastic idea in most cases. Taking her for an adventure and a late night rendezvous at a club/hotel for night is a great way to spice things up.

You don’t have to always make it an event. It could be a something where you pick her up from work with some cool clothes for her to wear. Then you take her on a road trip to great place for dinner and sunset. Then off to the club to pound the dance floor. After a couple drinks, take her and I said take her to the room you already booked. It doesn’t have to be an all-night affair, just a Wednesday night getaway. You’re back at midnight, ready for bed. I’ll bet she’ll sleep really well and contemplate calling in sick the next day.

Most of the Time, Be Casual

Don’t always try to get in her pants. You want to keep her wanting you. If you try too often you’ll get old. Yah, we know what you want, but you have to hold back and let her come to you sometimes. Playing it super fly is not the worst strategy in the world. You really shouldn’t try to impress her that much. Making her feel special is important, but not essential every night. The king is the king, so be her king most of the time.

After a while, you’ll know exactly how to get in her head with you words and your body. You won’t have to try very hard. Read The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, or if you’re not a big reader check out this summary by Nate Liason.

Try this strategy:

With slightly sex-charged phrases you can make your woman come to you. The next time you’re both at the house enjoying the day, say something with a sexual innuendo and watch her response. Do nothing at first and a few minutes later drop another one. Then move closer to her, and grab her firmly. If she’s wearing jeans, slide the tips of your index fingers in her jeans and start rubbing back and forth. If you maintain a confident pose move in for kiss. It won’t be much longer before you’re heading off to the bedroom or doing it on the kitchen floor.

Summary

You have to be on your game to be with a cougar XXX. If your performance, they may give you the benefit of the doubt for a little while, because you’re young but don’t count on it lasting forever. If you’re not up to par after a session or two, you probably won’t be around any longer. A cougar XXX isn’t going to wait for you to be confident. Most of them won’t even talk to you if you’re not. In bed, you’re the one who calls the shots. This doesn’t mean you’re overly aggressive. It means that you’re present and ready for anything. It means you’ve been around the block and know what you’re doing.

Step your game up with these tips and let us know when they work for you.

 

- Katherine L. Armstrong